Feeling Defeated...

My heart hurts...
my sister is in agony, her husband tries to be strong for her, but he aches too...
they need comfort
they need reassurance
they need hugs
they need laughs
they need time to grieve
they need time to refocus
they need to know that i believe with all my heart that God will bless them with a child...
they need to know that i believe God knows the deep desire of their hearts to be parents, and
they need to know that He knows what amazing parents they would be, and that it will happen...that they can trust Him...
they need to know it is in HIS timing...

they need to know i believe with all of my heart that there is no one else i know on this earth who deserves to be a mommy and daddy more than them...

they need to know that i trust they will be blessed with the gift of parenting because they have such a heart for children and i believe they can and will make a difference in the life of at least one child...
they need to know that it will all be okay...
they need to know i love them so much and i am praying constantly for their aching hearts...
they need to know that i know they can get thru this...
they need to know they are not alone...

Dee and Shane, you are not alone, you have eachother...and you're so strong and brave and the most amazing couple i know...i look up to you guys...i love you both so very much...dont give up, dont feel defeated, hold eachother up...
and KNOW..."that which does not kill you, makes you stronger."
hugs to my nee-nee...your sissy is with you...